1, in the hobby that blends in a colleague
Common saying says " gout agree with each other " , only ability of common interest, interest lets a person go. Unit of little red place works in the same place for the most part is the male, the brief breathing space when having a meal midday, work in the same placing often can gather together to talk of everything, regrettablly small red always feel do not insert on the mouth, at first a paragraph of day can be only on the side far listen. The topic no more than that male work in the same placing like to talk about is centrally above sports, stock, although do not know the popular climate of fashionable dress,do not cross them, not cloggy also the communication of they and female colleague. Want to do well with these male colleagues nevertheless the colleague concerns, a few move that accept them so that force them to go above all are promoted and like. Then small red begin everyday " conscious " the message of respect of ground attention sports and news, encounter equal opportunity is returned even and male work in the same placing see a ball together. "After there was collective topic now, it is much easier to get along with male colleague; Mix every time in the process of their prattle, in also can working oneself a few experience and they undertake communicating, the working friendship between us mutual between promotional many " , small red say so.
2, do not divulge individual privacy at will
The work in the same placing's individual is private, taking some of hidden to perhaps do not wish to let the facts one wishes to hide that someone else knows namely of course; If the colleague can tell you his privacy news, that can explain the colleague is enough credit to you only, the friendship between you should exceed others for certain one cut, otherwise she won't hold her illicit close overall in the palm to you. The illicit that if be at the same time in others mouth,heard oneself is close the exposure after be being made public, do not say, she considered as you to betray her for certain. The colleague affirmation that is betrayed will be more than in the heart 1000 scold you everywhere, feel for the companionship that gives before and accredit regret. Accordingly, do not divulge individual privacy to consolidate at will the main demand of professional friendship, if this are done bad, be afraid the colleague dare be mixed without which your confide in sb.
3, do not yield love " block " path
Song Jia and Wang Hui are the good sister of a pair of keep no secrets from each other, since two people work oneself, live in same dormitory all the time, go to work together everyday, come off work together, arrived almost the degree of always together! Accidental opportunity, song Jia and Wang Hui bring into contact with each respect condition is advantageous, chief very handsome man, they are in almost same time, produced good opinion to this man! To can be mixed handsome the man goes nearlier, song Jia and king broom abrupt elephant changed like the individual, they are always together no longer, act alone however; Later, two people for this matter, do so that fall out becomes enemy, old feeling vanishs completely at this point. Apparent, love " hold off " the friendship of two people, like to get on that at the same time from them handsome the man begins, the friendly feelings that announced they are old actually begins to move toward break with. Accordingly, regard a profession as the woman you, had better handle him affection to live alone, before love has not matured, although the closest friend, also procrastinating to date together. Otherwise, love will become friendship " stumbling block " .
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